here’s a little data from the demographic and health surveys for three african nations where polygamy is common — benin (2006), burkina faso (2003), and nigeria (2008). these are the percentages of single (never married) men and women at different ages. as you can see, because of polygamy (which creates a shortage of women), it takes longer for men to get married (a first time).
in benin, we don’t see a majority of men (76%) being married until after age 25. the vast majority of women are married by ages 20-24:
in burkina faso, again, a majority of men (~60%) are not married until after age 25. 84% of women are married by age 24:
in nigeria, a majority of men (76%) are not married until between the ages of 30-34. 62% of women are married by the age of 24:
in all three countries, a majority of men aged 45+ (98-99%) are married, but there’s a h*ckuva long wait for so many men!
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